If you have been the middle child, you would definitely know that being one is not a as simple as eating a slice of cake. But, what you would have never noticed is that you would have been the strongest one among your siblings and you still are. Shocked? It is true, says psychologists and studies conducted on this topic. A middle child always has an extra dose of independence and learns to love and appreciate things in a better way. So, why do they become the strongest? Read on to know the reasons.
1. They Adapt Better!
Parents have a tendency to overlook the middle child as if they are invisible. This makes them highly flexible and extravert to a certain level. They find it easy to adapt to any situation. They just melt into any group with utmost ease, and when you feel that they are followers, they actually showcase their leadership skills. And, these qualities make them pretty amiable.
2. They Know How To Tackle A Situation The Right Away!
Yes, these children are super astute and just pull the situation in their favor due to their adaptive nature. They never tolerate when someone try to push them down. They just handle it their way. These kids always are known for their arrogance, but in fact their highly assertive nature help them to become the strongest once they become the adults.
3. Risks Are Their Favorite Pastimes!
They go to any extent to grab attention, especially because parents tend to overlook. This gives them an opportunity to carve a special place for themselves by going an extra mile. This risk taking hobby grows up with them, encouraging them to become more courageous and stronger. They just do the things their way, always ensuring that their charm does the magic on others.
4. Confidence Is Innate!
In a family of three, the eldest is always the powerful and the right one, while the youngest is forced to be submissive. The middle one is left out, leaving him to be confident. People often misinterpret their behavior. While their silence is taken as weakness, their assertive nature is considered as being brash. But the fact remains that they know the right way to express and they communicate it perfectly.
5. Middle Children Are Better With Money Matters!
And, why not? Since they do not enjoy a chance to be spoiled, they tend to be extra cautious with the money. They have a perfect account of the incomes and expenditures. They are no luxurious. Since they are extra vigilant about money, they are now worried about answering. They have better knowledge about investments and trade. They can easily manage things on a budget. And, all these factors soon make them a stronger adult.
6. Decision Making Are Their Cup of Tea!
They have excellent logical and analytical skills. When the eldest and the youngest children fight and cannot conjure up a decision, it is always the middle child who solves the fight and comes with a decision. This decision making potential naturally boosts their confidence, thereby making them the strongest.
Middle children, according to renowned psychologists, are normally calm and stay away from emotional attacks. Their logical decision making potential and the power to be assertive is always a blessing. Well that means, being a middle child is a blessing in disguise! What do you say?